hahah, awh thanks hun (: but idk... but what really annoys me is every single person I talk to ask me what's going on between us two. He just says we are going out and hugs me! hah! Like today, we were walking out and I was mad at him for something stupid and he came over to me and stood behind me, holding both my hands and had his head on my shoulder and when he left, all the girls came over I me and asked me about him! but I don't like saying that I hate people saying that if u no wat I mean?
yeah, i know what you mean!
do you want to go out with him? it seems like he likes you, but he could just be one of those guys that flirts with everyone but is still nice?
today, at lunch, this girl that likes him (his ex) came over to us but he didnt talk to her for long... He sat down and told me to sit next to him. We sat together for the whole lunch just hugging basically... haha.
its seems like he likes you more than he likes her, so i reckon your in!
okay thanks x all our friends say how cute we would be and even his sister said we should go out! Haha! But we are best friends so I don't really know what to do? I don't want to tell him cause it could ruin how close we are..
so just start a conversation with him on facebook and then say; ‘this is random but the other day someone told me we would look good together’
and then you guys can just talk about it and stuff and hopefully it turns out well :)
the guy I like is really close to me and he recently told me he likes my exbestfriend, also his exgirlfriend... and they have been getting kinda closeI told him I don't think they should go back out and he half agreed but he really does like her and to me it looks as if she doesn't even care about him which really hurts me. I don't know what to do like he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend but I still think. What if?
okay, so i know exactly how you feel! even if he does end up with her, it won’t last! because she doesnt care about him. if you want him to like you, the best thing to do is just be yourself around him, if your close with him could you tell him you like him? just sort of hint to him that people think you guys would be cute together and gradually bring the topic up :) let me know what happens!
alright, so he wasnt able to meet up friday so i havent seen him yet. but ispoke to him today and he told me he wanted to take me on a date and that he liked me. i like him too i think, but i didnt tell him and now i feel like ive ruined our friendship. im scared to go on a date with him because im such an awkward person ! i really dont know what to do now :/ xoxo
well it isn’t too late to mention something to him! like i’ve been saying, don’t think of it as a date just as friends hanging out. besides i’m sure he wouldn’t mind if you were awkward and such, he knows you and he likes you for you. take a chance and go on the date with him :) it might just go really good and could be perfect! maybe when you go on the date, if you decided to go, then you’ll see how you really feel for him. you did ruin your relationship, don’t worry :) let me know what you decide! and sorry if this is a late reply
thankyou, your amazing xxx we have a thing called the tunnels and its like a massive drain pipe but usually they are dry and he likes to go there and if we go there on friday im scared of whats gonna happen there because like alot of teenage couples go there.. xo
oh well sounds like he might have something in mind if he’s taking you to a place where lots of couples go. but just remember, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. if you feel uncomfortable tell him that you wanna go home or suggest you guys do something else rather than going to the tunnels. don’t let him pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to do. remember to be firm with him so he doesn’t take advantage of anything. do you want to go there? if not maybe you can suggest something else to do before friday or you can always ride it out and see how you feel when you get there
im even more confused now so tonight he tells me how much he misses her & thats hes being self harming because of it ever since i met him i had a thing for him. i sorta think i like him now & i dont know what to do. i read his messages with me friend last night & he told her he was horny. so im really confused & i dont know whether he likes me or not & i think im falling for him. he doesnt go to my school and i havent seen him in a month maybe and im seeing him on friday & it could be awkward xx
okay so it does sound like he’s on a rebound right now. don’t let it get to you. you might end up in a situation where you wouldn’t want to be in it. you’re gonna end up falling for someone that isn’t right for you and who might not have the same feelings that you have for them. when you see him on friday just relax. don’t freak out or anything. forget the things you saw and everything he said to you. it’s just two friends hanging out as usual. a month is kinda long but don’t think of the meet up as a date or anything. keep it casual. if he flirts with you just brush it off or if you want you can flirt back but just let him know that there are boundaries that cannot be crossed. see how he acts on friday and maybe from there it’ll tell you how he feels about you. he might really like you, but could be scared to be rejected by you and is still going after that girl. or he really just wants to be with someone at the moment because he’s bored and just got out of a relationship. let me know how friday goes! x
i was the anon from the last question. so now im totally confused. we were talking on facebook and he was flirting with me and all. and i think he wants to hook up with me but i dont know what to do. ive never being kissed or had a boyfriend yet and im such an awkward person xx
well it seems scary to go into your first relationship especially if it’s with a good friend of yours right? well you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. if you like him go for it. just be yourself, like relax and just think of him as a friend and that you guys are just hanging out like you guys usually do. don’t think of him as a boyfriend yet or that you guys are on a date and such it might just make the whole idea of dating a tad scary. but because of the fact that he got out of a relationship it is possible that he is on the rebound. has he acted like that before? and if you have no interest in him then just let it be known that you do not wish to have a relationship with him besides being friends. whatever you do, just make sure it’s what you want. don’t do anything because you think he may want you to do it
my bestfriend just got dumped and hes really upset, what should i say to him? x
just let him know that you’re there for him. maybe suggest a night out with him, get the situation off of his mind. tell him that if it’s meant to be then everything will work out in the end. there other people out there as well
Well, there's this guy who I like and all the girls like him. But he always holds my hand and we hug Everytime we see each other and talk heaps and he's always the first one to text me but today he told me we were like a brother and sister and I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing and now I'm stressing and everyone says he likes this other girl and I feel like crying.
okay, don’t be sad that he likes you in a brother and sister kind of way. that’s a good thing because then you know that he’ll always be there for you.
but if you really do like him you should tell him that that’s not the way you see him, you see him as more than that.
hun, please don’t be upset, things happen for a reason, and when you tell him how you really feel things might change. you should tell him how you feel about him, it’s the only way to get the message across.
I just don't want to assume or get excited, like today, I sort or ignored him and he got really upset.. He called me gorgeous and put his arm around me for ages. And he also pushed a bit of my hair out of my face but idk, I asked his good guy mate but he hasnt told anyone who he likes. I think I'll just give up :/ xo
you shouldn’t give up, but if you really don’t think he likes you just take things steady, wait until he makes a move. you should just wait until those feelings for him fade away okay?
you’re still young, you don’t need to rush into relationships yet.
But what are some signs that he likes me? I'm really worried that if I tell him I like him, our friendship will Become a little uncomfortable? It's just like I want him to like me but if anything happens between us, it could totally ruin our friendship. Idk, we hug a lot and always walk together like yesterday, I was standing in a big group and he started to leave but then he grabbed my hand and pulled me along with him. And like, he always puts his arm around either my shoulder or waist.. ??
if he casually touches your arm or hand then that could be a sign, or playing with your hair. does he occasionally stare at you?? because if he does then it’s most likely that he likes you.
if you think your friendship with him might get a little uncomfortable then are any of your friends kind of close to him? so maybe they can ask him who he likes.
But i think the best way is to casually bring the topic up and just ask him.
Okay, so, I have this really amazing guy friend and we are just friends but, I am falling for him. I feel unsafe when he's not around and I get jealous when he talks to other girls. He usually tells me who he likes but he hasn't yet. We walk we each other at lunch, at the end of the day, to class and every single time, someone will say "you two should go out." he always smiles and puts his arm around me saying "we are" People in class always tell me we should go out but How can I tell he likesme
okay well first of all i think you should just ask him, since by the sound of it you guys are pretty close. and he tells you who he likes, so you guys trust each other alot. there is nothing wrong with confronting him or you could casually bring the subject up. and it seems that he has a thing for you too, maybe he just isn’t sure whether you feel the same way. if he sometimes ‘accidently’ touches your hand or brushes your arm with his arm then that could be a sign that he likes you as well.
so just ask him casually :)
or if you’re more of the straight forward type or person then just confront him and say that you’re falling for him.
but if you aren’t so confident asking him maybe ask your friends to maybe try to ask him and stuff.
You're going to think this is really stupid but um, i love 1d (theyre actually the reason i stopped cutting) anyways and whenever i talk about them he gets jealous and it causes a lot of fights..
Have you tried talking to him calmly about it and explaining why they mean so much to you? And just reassure him you love him more (even if you don’t haha!) guys need reassurance as much as girls sometimes.
He broke up with me. But just then we were talking and we were.having a reslly deep oversation and i told him id cutand he was so supportive of me and sweet.
You have to think about why you’re talking to him about these things and not your boyfriend. What would he think of it all? It’d probably really hurt him. If you love him, consider that. And think about whether you want to be with someone who’s around when they want to be, who broke up with you and now suddenly wants you back when you’re with someone else, or with someone who you said you love.
Ive been going out with this guy for about 5 months and i love him, but my ex recently broke up with his girlfriend of about 4 months. we talk a lot and he flirts with me and i think im starting to like him again and he told me that he still liked me after we broke up but he wasnt sure that i did too and i did, i was in love with him. What should i do?
I think you have to consider what you really want. If you love the person you’re with, you wouldn’t want anyone else. And think about why he is your ex, what happened - people are ex’s for a reason.
Hi I’m 17 and I am a junior. There is this guy who is a grade younger than me, and I think I hav sorta fallen 4 him. He is super outgoing and sometimes puts his arm around me playfully. But I can’t tell if that is just a friendly thing or not. I want to make a move, tho I am not sure how. But what is holding me back is that it is the expected thing for the guy to ask, and b/c he is outgoing, wouldn’t he hav already asked me out? But mayb he doesn’t have the guts? Not exactly sure what 2 do.
Um okay, say he does like you, even though he’s all outgoing and stuff he might think that you dont have feelings for him, which you do and because you’re in the grade above him he wouldnt want to make any kind of move unless he was certain you liked him back.
On the other hand, it could just be a friendly kind of thing. Just talk to him about it discuss your feelings for eachother
It’s not neccessarily love, I believe love comes from being together and sharing things together and the friendship you build. You can really strongly like a person and lust for them, without it being love.
How can you tell if your in love? I'm not dating this guy or anything but when e talks to me and smile at me and ahhhhh I just feel as though I really really like him!?!?
ummm, theres no set way to tell if you’re in love, but that’s definately one of the sings. It might also depend on how long you’ve liked him because its a physcological fact that you can only have a crush onsomeone for a maximum of 4 months before it turns into love.
Well, I am 14years old and flat chested! Only a 32A but do padded bras help?
i heard victoria secret’s bras do wonders. said to make it look two sizes bigger so you can check them out :) padded bras work for some people so you just gotta test them out and see if they work for you
stuff, and we talk over bbm & stuff but we would so be such a good couple its unbelieveable. my friends invite me to loads of things but i cant really tell anyone how im feeling at home. no one understands me, i cry every fucking day and about how much i hate myself and my life. my friends dont understand how hard it is to have parents that say "love u so much" and never show it. they think that my parents getting engaged is cute. i hate it, im lonely, im sad, depressed. pls help. :(( fml
Tell your parents how you feel, maybe bring up the topic slowly, maybe say ‘mum/dad can i just have a day with you? I’ve been feeling a bit left out lately’ And just go from there, don’t be afraid to speak up, because no matter how bad your situation is, if you don’t say anything, you wont be heard. And please don’t try and cut. Cutting is never the answer. Ive been down that road and once you start its hard to stop, you’ll have scars for a long time. Trust me, don’t try again. And tell your best friend or someone you really trust how you feel, the can help you (:
i need your help; i have been feeling down lately. my mum & dad are divorced and both engaged to other people. ive been feeling really left out lately, and its like they dont care :( i tried to cut today, but i wasnt using a knife or scissors so it didnt really work out. the guy i like doesnt make an effort to talk to me, only sometimes, i mean in school we sometimes have small chats & its really easy to talk to him & stuff, and when we see each other in the hallway we smile to each other and>>>
i rrreeeaaaallllyyy like this guy, and he likes me too, we've been seeing each other and apparently he's going to ask me out and he's told my best friend what he's going to do apparently its really cute (gaaaahhh!!) but I'm so scared I'm gonna do something to stuff up his little plan, and I'm so scared of losing him and i have never ever felt this way about any one and I'm so scared that my feelings might die like they have with every other relationship :( will they?
i think you just need to trust yourself babe, you like this guy and the guy likes you back and just be yourself to him and sure enough he will ask you out the same way he said he would to your friends. and you said you’ve never felt this way about anyone so you can’t compare your feelings now to the feelings you’ve had before this is different. be yourself and enjoy it(: hope this helps and good luck with him
Ive liked this guy for about a month or too. he's admitted to liking me a while ago. but when I've told him I've liked him he kinda like didnt anymore. everyone in my class found out I liked him. now I've told him I'm over waiting for him and making an effort to start inboxes and stuff. and now he is saying he likes me again. has he always liked me, and just been afraid of what everyone will think? what do you think is up with him, is he worth dating?
i think that if you generally like this guy you should give it a chance? try not to think of what other people would say about you becuase it’s you and him in the relationship and not them. It must have been hard for him as well to admit to liking you becuase there is always the chance that you don’t like him back. So just talk to him and see what he has to say and if he is willing to be without despite what people say?
Well, we do talk often, we are friends.! But he is always the one to start the conversation and he always says hi to me etc. and before the Easter holidays, I started to ignore him, to see if I would get over him but he just seemed to talk to me more?! And (I just want to share this) in food, my friends iPod case you can draw on with your finger etc. and he though it was mine and I saw him write I ❤ u and then quickly rub it out! I was about to DIE!! But I don't think it was meant for me somehow
Yeah, the more you show less interest the more a guy shows interest. Tbh, my boyfriend got so interested in me because I made it so hard for him! Don’t know why, just seems to be how guys work. Especially if all these girls like him he’ll wonder what made you go all quiet you know. Well if he really wrote that, then honestly keep up what you’re doing it sounds like he might like you. Keep postitive and don’t just assume it wouldn’t be for you :)
Well, the guy I like, a lot of other girls like also and every time someone else is flirting with him, I get really annoyed. It's like I'm protective over him and he's not even mine. And my ex-bestfriend likes him and everytime she is with him and sees me, she will try make me jealous by flirting with him. I just don't want it to be such a big deal :/
Ignore your ex-best friend, there’s a reason she’s your ex one. Do you know the guy well? Consider if you like him, or just because others do and he’s good looking (as he must be). It must be annoying to watch others flirt with him, but if you really do like him get yourself out there, simply talk to him on a normal level and see where it goes. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, and try to ignore the flirting.
- Jenni x
everyone feels like that, you love him so what? you should definitely go sort things out with your ex-bestfriend because she could be doing that just to get to you. (but on the other hand maybe you should just ignore her, she is your ‘ex’ bestfriend)
well if you really like him then you should start making casual conversations with him, and get to know him and start hanging out with him every now and then so he can get to know you a little better. good relationships always start of with friendships first :)
ignore the other girls, be different and don’t just go up to him flirty, try to make a conversation with him and all that.
im quite early in the puberty stage and i once shaved my pubes about a year ago, and i am scared its not like growing back, now its quite thin and straight and arent they usually curly, im quite scared
Shaving them affects the way they grow, it’s nothing to worry about. It’s the same as when you shave your legs, often afterwards the hair grows straight and more prickly than flat on your leg before. You’ve effectively cut the pubes, so it’s changed the direction. It may be a good idea to try waxing, if your pubes have reacted this way.
What is a condom and what does it look like and how do guys put it on?
a condom is what the guy uses (if he doesn’t want to get someone pregnant) it just looks like a rubber because it’s just rubber. you can look on google for images of condoms. guys put it on just by slipping it on like a sleeve. however they need to put it on correctly so it won’t break or slip or any of that bad stuff